Thursday, February 19th 2015- 8:00 p.m. I've probably visited at least 500 websites related to infertility. No, really. Since July 2013, my husband and I have tried to start a family. As many others dealing with infertility, the thought when we first started trying is that *poof* it would just happen. Three miscarriages and almost two years later we are dealing with a different story. People don't really understand what is like to be the person who grieves the child they have yet to have or may never have.
"When are you going to start having kids?"
"You guys are getting older. You better start trying."
"You don't want to be old parents, do you?"
"Don't worry. This happens to a lot of people."
"Your time will come when the time is right."
"There are a lot of people who went on to have kids."
"Don't give up."
"You're still young. You have time."
"Oh I know someone who just took 'xyz' and she got pregnant. Maybe that's what you need."
"Take advantage of this time. Once you have kids you won't sleep."
"I'm pregnant."
Do these quotes resonate with anyone? Simple statements and questions people make, without realizing its affect. They all tug at my heart. I know their purpose is not to be insensitive or to hurt my feelings. But all of the aforementioned make it feel hard for me to swallow. I have found a lot of comfort and support through the blogs and shared stories of others going through infertility, and therefore, I have decided to start a blog myself. I hope this blog helps others relate, helps others to not feel alone, gives valuable resources and information to those dealing with infertility, as well as their families and friends, and touches at least one heart.
This is just the start.
Best Wishes All,
P.S. Just came across this resource for those dealing with infertility and those who know someone dealing with infertility: Acceptance in Infertility: 9 Untruths in the 'Never Give Up' Message
